After years of trying other apps, Camila felt like something was missing: respect, purpose, and most of all, real connections.

Everything changed when she discovered Bumble Date. There, women take the initiative — and that completely changes the game.

Before Bumble, I had tried almost every app possible. But it always seemed the same: too much superficiality and no depth. 

And that's exactly why I tried Bumble. The idea that women make the first move caught my attention. 

For the first time, I had control over how and with whom I initiated a conversation.

Additionally, the app has identity verification, the ability to report suspicious profiles and even an invisible mode, which gives you more control over who sees your profile. 

Another strong point is the intention, location and interest filters. I was able to focus on people who were really there with the same purpose.

The truth is that Bumble helped me break out of that tiresome cycle of empty conversations. And all of this without having to expose myself or take risks.

After a few months of using the app, I’ve learned a lot about how to get the most out of Bumble Date — and I want to share it with you. 

The first tip is to put a lot of effort into your profile. It may seem obvious, but I see a lot of people only posting one or two photos and an empty bio. On Bumble, this makes a difference. 

Choose photos that truly represent you, that show your personality and interests. There’s no need to overdo it — being real is more important than looking perfect. 

And write something in your bio that goes beyond “ask and find out.” Be direct about what you’re looking for.

Another thing I realized is that starting conversations lightly and creatively opens many doors. 

Since on Bumble the woman makes the first move, I always try to say something beyond just “hi.” Sometimes I’ll comment on the person’s profile or ask a fun question.

It’s also worth adjusting your filters strategically. There’s no point in wanting someone to commit to and being open to all kinds of intentions. 

When I made it clear that I wanted a safe and respectful online relationship, I started receiving suggestions that were much more in line with what I was looking for.

I had already experienced uncomfortable situations on other apps — fake profiles, aggressive messages, people clearly with no intention of anything serious. 

So, before diving head first into Bumble, I wanted to understand if it was really a reliable dating app.

Right away, I found the profile verification very interesting. The app encourages you to confirm your identity with a selfie, and that gave me a lot more peace of mind. 

And unlike other apps, Bumble allows you to quickly report inappropriate behavior, which shows that they really care about the user experience.

Another important point is the respect I felt in the conversations. Since we, women, are the ones who initiate the conversation, the approach is lighter and much more respectful. 

Additionally, Bumble makes it very clear what type of connection each person is looking for — dating, friendship, or networking. For me, this transparency is a big difference.

So, to answer this very directly: yes, Bumble is reliable. 

I initially used Bumble entirely on the free version, and I can safely say that you can get great results that way. 

I got quality matches, good conversations and even some deeper connections. But over time, I became curious about these exclusive features.

The first thing I noticed was the control the paid version gave me. I could see who liked my profile before I even matched and I also had access to more specific filters. 

Another feature I liked was the mode Travel, which allows you to change your location and see people from other cities or even countries. 

Since I work remotely, I found it interesting to explore possibilities outside my region. Rematch and Extender helped me regain connections.

Now, if you ask me: is it worth paying for a dating app? My answer is: it depends. 

If you're really willing to invest the time and energy into finding someone special, Bumble Premium can speed up that process. 

But if you're still testing the waters, the free version already offers a lot — especially if you know how to use the tools the app offers well.

Oh, and a funny thing happened while I was using Bumble Date: I started exploring other areas of the app and discovered Bumble BFF. 

I confess that between one match and another, I also found myself thinking about how good it would be to meet new people — but without the pressure of a relationship. 

Just friendship, you know? And that's when I was surprised again. But that's another story... that's worth telling.

Before Bumble, I had of course used Tinder. It was the first dating app I tried — and honestly, I had a little bit of everything. 

If you're curious to know how Tinder compares to Bumble and what still makes it one of the most used apps in the world, it's worth checking out this other side of the story.